Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Alcoholic/Bulimic/Cutter ?!?

I had a friend like this except she was anorexic, a cutter, and drank from time to time. you can't do anything unless they want help themself. i'm not sure why you telling would get you in trouble especially since all they have to do to believe you as look for the cuts. you can go to a counselor yourself and express your grief and ask your friend to go get help with you. maybe they're too afraid to do it, all you can do is be there for her. its probably really hard for her to talk about it so just reinforce that you're scared for her and you want to be there. and if it takes you coming with her to talk to someone thats what you'll do. if she still refuses you may have to woman up and say something to someone despite the consequences or just be there for her while the abuse continues. you shouldn't do the second option since its the most helpless but hey. some people do i guess. good luck :]

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